A heart-shaped padlock hangs on a metal grid fence, symbolizing love and commitment.

God is Love

In this post, Pam encourages you to focus on God this Valentine’s Day, because God is love.

Love or Attack. YOU decide.

Competition is a good thing AND a bad thing. It is definitely not a Valentines kinda LOVE, but sadly often people attack what they can’t control. It is human nature to try to control our environment by trying to control one another in various ways.

We want to BE understood.

We want to be #1.

We make excuses why others are to “blame” for our poor attitude or grumpy mood.

We COMPARE ourselves with each other.

That is the world’s way but God’s way is so much better.

God IS Love!!! He is our TRUE Valentine. He wants to bless us. He KNOWS what we need. And…Rather than COMPETE with one another, He wants us to COMPLETE one another. We are each just one small piece of a much bigger puzzle. God chose the details of our “puzzle design”. And God desires we all then CHOOSE to fit together smoothly so the world can see the bigger picture that our CREATOR had in mind when He created each of us just the way we are. 

Rather than COMPETE with one another, God wants us to COMPLETE one another. Share on X

He desires we embrace that difference (by His design) in ourselves AND in others. But how do we do that? It seems impossible, right?

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Are you stuck in Routine BORING?

Do you feel like you have tried it all and nothing is lasting? Does it seem too hard? Do you feel like it is no use and nothing is going to change so you just fall into a pattern of tolerating each other? It doesn’t have to be that way.

God created us to be a unique mix of qualities. We are complex creatures. It is true, we all have different spiritual gifts. We have different love languages. And we also have different personalities. Our focus in this Trilogy is recognizing and embracing the differences in Personalities by God’s design. It’s a God is love kinda thing.


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The Living From Your Strengths Trilogy was written to help you value the strengths of others and embrace the person God created you to be.

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Subconsciously and Unconsciously.

We tend to expect others to act and react like we do. But our amazing God likes to keep it interesting.

It can be easy to make it complicated in our minds. We try for a minute to “change”. We try to “do better this time”. But when we don’t get immediate results of better relationships, we tend to fall back into the comfortable but NOT working same patterns.

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That is why we are bringing you this Living Your Strengths Trilogy. We have done the hard work for you. Read it with a pencil in your hand. Make notes to yourself. Use it as a workbook. When you stumble or are tempted to quit on a relationship, pick up the book and remind yourself that God is Big and you can do this…with His help…so…

As our title announces: God is Love. Pray for His love to be so evident that it makes you want to love Him back. Keep Looking Up for His guidance. His help. His wisdom. He knew what He was doing when He created you. AND when He created all those in your “orbit”. They, too, are here by God’s design.

Remember: Keep this book handy as a “relationship rescue” reference book. Let me know how it goes.

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